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Well, we did not get the news we were hoping for. As a matter of fact we wouldn't have gotten any news if I hadn't for the 4th time e-mailed my coordinator for the status of our case. Can you say "avoidance". She called me and to make a long story short the information she had given me was incorrect. We are not nor were we ever in PGN!! Apparently the error with the mother's birth certificate was found by whoever reviews the file before it enters PGN it was not in PGN and kicked out for the error. Also, we did not come out of Family Court at the same time we received PA. There was a problem with the social worker report that had to be corrected so we couldn't have gone into PGN. The last she heard they were hoping to have everything corrected and ready to enter PGN this past Friday. However, she does not know whether or not that has happened. She hopes to get info by Wed. I'm not holding my breath that's for sure!! This is not the first time that I have been given info about our case that we discussed in detail only to find out later on that the information was incorrect. I addressed this issue once already and I thought we had an understanding of how important it is to us to get accurate information. This process is hard enough to endure and hanging on information that is eventually proven to be incorrect makes things even harder.

This time around she blamed the language barrier between her and the attorney's office. You've got to be kidding me!!! How long have you working with this attorney and all of a sudden you have a language barrier? The report is translated into English, what's not to understand. I now see why she has not gotten back to my many requests for exact dates of when we entered and exited PGN. She has been stalling me with excuses that she hasn't been able to get a hold of anyone who could give her the info. The truth is there are no dates because it never happened.

We know that the outcome of our case does not hinge upon us having accurate information on a regular basis. That is purely a want not a need. We know that our agency is very reputable and very cautious and the attorneys do a great job so we are not worried about our case as a whole but, our emotional well being however depends on getting correct, accurate, timely information. Is that too much too ask?

I am praying for a miracle that PGN does not kick us out and that we somehow get on the top of the stack when Barrios is signing approved cases. I want to plan a 1st birthday not a sweet sixteen if you know what I mean.